Okenye – The Pillar of Wisdom in Tradition
In Igbo culture, Okenye (elder) is more than just an elderly person—they are respected figures of authority, knowledge, and cultural preservation. The words of an Okenye carry weight, and they serve as advisors, mediators, and spiritual guides in both family and community matters.
Elders are seen as living libraries of Igbo history, customs, and proverbs, ensuring that traditional practices are passed down to younger generations. They are often consulted in family and communal decisions, as their wisdom is shaped by years of experience and deep cultural knowledge. An Igbo proverb says, “Ihe onye okenye no n'ala hu, nwata anaghi hu ya n'elu osisi” (What an elder sees while sitting, a child cannot see even from the top of a tree). This reflects the deep respect for the insights of elders.
Beyond their advisory role, Okenye perform ancestral rites, lead cultural ceremonies, and maintain peace within the community. They often serve as judges in family disputes, using Igbo customary laws to settle conflicts fairly. As symbols of respect and wisdom, elders are greeted with special honor, and younger people are expected to listen attentively and show reverence in their presence.
