Oche – Seat with Deep Cultural Meaning
In Igbo tradition, Oche (stool or seat) goes beyond its basic function—it is a symbol of honor, warmth, and presence. To offer someone an Oche is to welcome them into your space with respect. In homes, gatherings, and ceremonies, the act of giving a seat carries weight. It says: “You are seen, valued, and included.”
During traditional marriage ceremonies, elders from both families sit on designated Oche to bless the union. The bride and groom may also be seated on special stools during rituals, symbolizing their new role as a family unit. In naming ceremonies, chieftaincy installations, or storytelling circles, the Oche is not just where people sit—it is where honor is given, where words are listened to, and where culture is passed down.
Oche also plays a role in hospitality. When a visitor arrives, the host will say “Nọrọ n’oche”—“Please, have a seat.” This invitation represents peace, goodwill, and the beginning of connection. Whether in a rural compound or a modern sitting room, the gesture of offering an Oche is a timeless thread of Igbo etiquette, linking the past to the present.
