Nwoke – The Role of Men in Igbo Society
In Igbo culture, being a Nwoke (man) is not just about age but about responsibility, character, and contributions to family and society. A man is expected to be hardworking, wise, and honorable, playing a critical role in both domestic and communal affairs.
The ideal Igbo man is one who provides for his family, maintains discipline, and earns respect through his actions. His role is not just about physical strength but also about wisdom and leadership. Traditionally, a Nwoke is expected to marry, build a home, and take an active role in his Umunna (extended kindred group), ensuring that his lineage continues and remains honorable.
Beyond the family, a Nwoke is also responsible for community engagement, decision-making, and conflict resolution. He participates in village meetings, business ventures, and title-taking ceremonies that affirm his status and contributions to society. The Igbo say, "Nwoke adịghị anọ n'ụlọ ekiri ewu ọlụ" (A man does not sit at home and watch a goat give birth), meaning that a man must always be active and engaged in his responsibilities.
